My American Voice

In my opinion I believe that I can be a shy person time to time. When it come to speaking up I have to know if it's worth saying something because why would tell someone something if they are just going to tell me things that they don't even know. I rather be the bigger person and ignore what they are saying to me and if they are being rude to the other person I will do my best to get them out of it. But, I will also think what i am going to say to the other person. i want them to understand what is coming out of my mouth so my words could go through the person's head and hear what I have to say to them. What would you do?